I just bailed from the proposed Thursday night book group to discuss Calling in 'The One'. I just couldn't give up my only free weeknight. I can't decide whether this means that I'm avoiding trying to attract my soul mate or whether it means I'm too busy. And is my packed schedule going to mean that I can never fit anyone else in except my students and my band? Gawd, I hope not, because to have extra time would mean giving up high school teaching, violin teaching, or TML, all of which add to my life in many amazing, satisfying ways. But I think it is a little true that having my full life (except slighly less full in the summers, barring home improvement and crazy permaculture projects) does put a lot of men off. But maybe it's not my fault that the same guys who are attracted by the things I do end up being upset with me for not having more time. Argh. See, this is why I hate thinking about this stuff.
On the other hand, my life must be pretty great right now if I can be worrying about something this silly. Knocking on wood.